Category: etc musings


Facades of competence. The truth is, we’re all just winging it.

In a world of seemingly competent institutions and authority figures, it’s both alarming and deeply reassuring to discover that everyone is just winging it. Action for Happiness, highlights the detrimental effects of chronically comparing our insides with other people’s outsides. We tend to project an image of calm proficiency to

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Kindful Leadership: 8 Paths to Nurturing a Compassionate Workplace

I’m noticing that leaders are realising the profound impact of incorporating kindness and compassion into their leadership styles, and Graham Alcott’s eight principles of kindful leadership offer a comprehensive guide for leaders seeking to infuse their organisations with compassion, empathy, and personal growth. These strategies offer leaders a roadmap from

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Watch: Life fright – living with high functioning anxiety

An enlightening TedX talk from a comedian and performer, Jordan Raskopolous about the dichotomy between being supremely confident in one area of life and cripplingly anxious in another.  I wanted to share this as a reminder that ‘ShyLoud’ is a real thing, to highlight this specific anxiety disorder to anyone

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Assertive vs aggressive communication / a graphic

I previously wrote and article about the difference between being assertive and being aggressive, and the fact many people confuse being aggressive with being assertive. Being rude with asserting. I liked these eight reminders about the difference between communicating aggressively versus assertively. Andy.

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Voice notes at work?

Some years ago – before remote working was a standard ‘thing’ – one of my co-workers used to leave voice messages on Slack and Whatsapp. No one really liked it, and it became a bit of a running joke (albeit one she was aware of). But she persisted.  As trends

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